Good looks are good for you?

Everybody spends time looking in the mirror thinking that their body is not perfect, we naturally see ourselves as less than  perfect. In today’s world we are not judged only by our inner beauty or by the things we say and do so much. First impressions are based on our looks.  If you were lucky enough to be born with natural good looks then you will have an advantage in life. You will be more popular and have a easier time making friends and be part of the cool group of people.

If you investigate this a little  more you will see that although there is an advantage to natural good looks it’s not the big advantage that you imagine. There are issues with being good looking that others without such “first impression appeal” don’t have.  I find this to be the case with good looking woman as in our world today they are targets for men who can be dominating and forceful.

For example if you compare two woman, one whom is very good looking and another who has normal looks. Of course the difference can be as  subtle as the way they dress or the level of personal grooming. The point is that the good looking woman will be the target of more attention that the normal looking girl. So how does that attention affect the life of this woman compared to the other?  Is that attention a positive influence of her life?

The attention starts at an early age. when girls reach their teen years they will notice the glaring eyes of men who are naturally attracted to their looks. This can create different reactions depending on the character and confidence of the young girls. In some it will create fear and anxiety, which at an early age can stay with them throughout their lives.  Young minds need to be supported and any fears need to be minimized as they grow to learn to build their confidence and  maturity.

Of course with the normal looking girl the chances of the attention being a negative influence are reduced and she will have a higher chance of developing to maturity without issues associated with the glaring eyes.

This also continues as they grow older and start to interact with the opposite sex.  In their teenage years they will be the target of dominating young immature men who will approach them. This can be difficult again for the not so confident and socially inexperienced girls as they may not have  the ability to fend off   unwanted advances.  This situation when repeated can cause social and mental issues with girls as they may not always make the right choices and then  have to deal with the memories of their choices. This all happens when they are still developing the social skills towards maturity.

So in conclusion, it’s great to be born with good looks but it should be noted that for some people these looks can have a negative effect on their life as they will have some un wanted attention that they will have to deal with and that attention can cause life long issues.



The best Chauffeurs and Limo drivers

Have you ever wondered what the best personality traits are for a Limo driver or chauffeur?

This profession has a lot of challenges as the expectations are very high. People who use these services are generally using them for important occasions such as hiring a limousine for their wedding or meeting business clients at the airport. With this in  mind you can see how it can be a very difficult proposition when things go a little wrong.

Being late for example can cause a lot of frustration for the bride and the wedding party and also if the limo is not there waiting at the airport when the client is expecting a quick exit, then  emotions can run high. This is where a professional chauffeur has to be able to handle the situation in a manner that can diffuse the anger and make the best outcome from a troublesome event.

A limo driver has to be able to plan and be aware of all the possible problems that could occur with each job he undertakes. He needs to be aware of any traffic issues and be able to plan the job to ensure he arrives when expected. Also he has to understand the wants and requests of his clients, he or she need to know their names and the purpose of the trip as limousine hire can be expensive and the people who are using this service are normally wealthy people who are used to getting the best service.

Being a limo driver is not for everyone and it takes a special type of character to succeed in this role.  Limos are used for many different types of events such as weddings, nights out, corporate events, bucks nights and many other events. The Chauffeur has to adjust his style to cater for all these bookings. For weddings he needs to be friendly and supportive. For business clients he needs to be professional and efficient. For party’s and nights out hes should be careful and diligent as people can get drunk and cause problems.

The best limo drivers are patient and punctual. They identify the needs of their clients and are proactive in dealing with them. They are well mannered, well groomed has a high level of  awareness.

Driving a limo can be a very rewarding job as it involves a vast array of different events and is never boring. The key to being successful is planning and service. Always think of the job in advance and try to eliminate any problems that might occur. They should make sure they can always adapt and change to suit the job and try to give their clients an experience that will be remembered.

And above all the chauffeur must be friendly and always try to do the best for his clients. This is a service business and the key to being the best is to give the best service and to be proud of your position as it’s not a job that anyone can do.